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	<itunes:subtitle>How to stay happily married - The latest marriage tips and advice from the nation's leading authors, counselors, and mental health professionals. Topics include, sex, intimacy, marriage counseling, conflict, kids, and family.</itunes:subtitle>
	<itunes:summary>A marriage and relationship resource for couples seeking marriage counseling and growth.</itunes:summary>
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		<title>On The Brink Of Divorce</title>
		<link>http://stayhappilymarried.com/2009/12/14/on-the-brink-of-divorce/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Dec 2009 19:38:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ned</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Is a separation looming on the horizon of your relationship? Ideally, a couple can recognize their problems and get help before divorce is considered an option, but all too often, couples will allow conflict and communication issues to fester until marriage counseling is seen as a last ditch effort on the way to divorce court. [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p>Is a separation looming on the horizon of your relationship? Ideally, a couple can recognize their problems and get help before divorce is considered an option, but all too often, couples will allow conflict and communication issues to fester until marriage counseling is seen as a last ditch effort on the way to divorce court. Liza Shaw returns to the show to take a look at what puts a couple so close to the edge and what can be done to put the marriage back on the right track.</p>
<p>Liza recommends using resources like <a href="http://marriagefriendlytherapists.com/">MarriageFriendlyTherapists.com</a> and the <a href="http://www.aamft.org/">American Association of Marriage and Family Therapy</a> to find a qualified professional to help you and your spouse.</p>
<p>Liza is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Certified Advanced Clinical Hypnotherapist with a private practice in Hickory, NC, where she specializes in couples counseling, family counseling, and grief therapy. You can find out more about Liza and her practice at <a href="http://www.powertothrive.com">PowerToThrive.com</a> &#8211; or visit <a href="http://www.powertothriveradio.com">PowerToThriveRadio.com</a> for interviews and podcasts. You can also call her office at 828.328.4673</p>
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		<itunes:summary>Is a separation looming on the horizon of your relationship? Ideally, a couple can recognize their problems and get help before divorce is considered an option, but all too often, couples will allow conflict and communication issues to fester until marriage counseling is seen as a last ditch effort on the way to divorce court. Liza Shaw returns to the show to take a look at what puts a couple so close to the edge and what can be done to put the marriage back on the right track.

Liza recommends using resources like MarriageFriendlyTherapists.com and the American Association of Marriage and Family Therapy to find a qualified professional to help you and your spouse.

Liza is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Certified Advanced Clinical Hypnotherapist with a private practice in Hickory, NC, where she specializes in couples counseling, family counseling, and grief therapy. You can find out more about Liza and her practice at PowerToThrive.com - or visit PowerToThriveRadio.com for interviews and podcasts. You can also call her office at 828.328.4673</itunes:summary>
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		<title>Unfaithful: Hope And Healing After Infidelity</title>
		<link>http://stayhappilymarried.com/2009/11/23/unfaithful-hope-and-healing-after-infidelity/</link>
		<comments>http://stayhappilymarried.com/2009/11/23/unfaithful-hope-and-healing-after-infidelity/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Nov 2009 16:00:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ned</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[When first dealing with infidelity, the pain and shame can make recovery seem unlikely. Too many people see an affair as a death-sentence for a marriage, but Gary and Mona Shriver are proof that recovery and forgiveness are possible and worth the effort and have created a ministry dedicated to couples whose marriages have been [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p>When first dealing with infidelity, the pain and shame can make recovery seem unlikely. Too many people see an affair as a death-sentence for a marriage, but Gary and Mona Shriver are proof that recovery and forgiveness are possible and worth the effort and have created a ministry dedicated to couples whose marriages have been shaken by infidelity.</p>
<p>You can find out a lot more about Gary and Mona Shriver and “Unfaithful, Hope &amp; Healing after Infidelity”, along with information about Hope and Healing ministries at <a href="http://hopeandhealing.us">HopeAndHealing.us</a>, which features a wealth of free audio and video resources for couples dealing with infidelity. You can also order a copy of <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1434765334?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=stayhappmarr-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=1434765334">Unfaithful: Hope and Healing After Infidelity</a><img style="border:none !important; margin:0px !important;" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=stayhappmarr-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=1434765334" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" /> at Amazon.com</p>
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		<itunes:duration>29:09</itunes:duration>
		<itunes:subtitle>When first dealing with infidelity, the pain and shame can make recovery seem unlikely. Too many people see an affair as a death-sentence for a ...</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>When first dealing with infidelity, the pain and shame can make recovery seem unlikely. Too many people see an affair as a death-sentence for a marriage, but Gary and Mona Shriver are proof that recovery and forgiveness are possible and worth the effort and have created a ministry dedicated to couples whose marriages have been shaken by infidelity.

You can find out a lot more about Gary and Mona Shriver and “Unfaithful, Hope &#38; Healing after Infidelity”, along with information about Hope and Healing ministries at HopeAndHealing.us, which features a wealth of free audio and video resources for couples dealing with infidelity. You can also order a copy of Unfaithful: Hope and Healing After Infidelity at Amazon.com</itunes:summary>
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		<title>The Fight That Never Ends</title>
		<link>http://stayhappilymarried.com/2009/09/28/the-fight-that-never-ends/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Sep 2009 16:33:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ned</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[When an argument is brewing, do you know exactly how it will play out before the first angry word is said? Are you constantly having the same argument over and over without ever resolving the root issue? Stephen Hawthorne joins us to examine why we avoid tackling the problems that cause us to have the [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p>When an argument is brewing, do you know exactly how it will play out before the first angry word is said? Are you constantly having the same argument over and over without ever resolving the root issue? Stephen Hawthorne joins us to examine why we avoid tackling the problems that cause us to have the same argument repeatedly and how to open up to your spouse and resolve these conflicts once and for all.</p>
<p>Stephen has been on the faculty of Duke Medical Center since 1977 and has operated his own private practice in Durham since 1981, where he specializes in psychotherapy services for adults, and children, ranging from chronic illness and depression, to sexual dysfunction and ADHD. You can find out more about Stephen by visiting his website at <a href="http://stephenhawthornelcsw.com">StephenHawthorneLCSW.com</a> and by visiting his blog about his unique ABCTherapy at <a href="http://abctherapy.wordpress.com/">ABCTherapy.Wordpress.com</a></p>
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		<itunes:duration>27:08</itunes:duration>
		<itunes:subtitle>When an argument is brewing, do you know exactly how it will play out before the first angry word is said? Are you constantly having ...</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>When an argument is brewing, do you know exactly how it will play out before the first angry word is said? Are you constantly having the same argument over and over without ever resolving the root issue? Stephen Hawthorne joins us to examine why we avoid tackling the problems that cause us to have the same argument repeatedly and how to open up to your spouse and resolve these conflicts once and for all.

Stephen has been on the faculty of Duke Medical Center since 1977 and has operated his own private practice in Durham since 1981, where he specializes in psychotherapy services for adults, and children, ranging from chronic illness and depression, to sexual dysfunction and ADHD. You can find out more about Stephen by visiting his website at StephenHawthorneLCSW.com and by visiting his blog about his unique ABCTherapy at ABCTherapy.Wordpress.com</itunes:summary>
		<itunes:keywords>anxiety, blame, conflict, fighting, podcasts</itunes:keywords>
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		<title>Spotting An Emotionally Destructive Marriage</title>
		<link>http://stayhappilymarried.com/2009/08/17/spotting-an-emotionally-destructive-marriage/</link>
		<comments>http://stayhappilymarried.com/2009/08/17/spotting-an-emotionally-destructive-marriage/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Aug 2009 15:42:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ned</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The signs of physical abuse are often easy to recognize, but do you know the indicators of emotional abuse in a relationship? Where do we draw the line between a benign sarcastic exchange every now and then and behavior that is truly hurtful to one or both spouses? Dr. Michael Hall joins us to examine [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p>The signs of physical abuse are often easy to recognize, but do you know the indicators of emotional abuse in a relationship? Where do we draw the line between a benign sarcastic exchange every now and then and behavior that is truly hurtful to one or both spouses? Dr. Michael Hall joins us to examine exactly what emotional abuse is, the impact it has on both spouses, and steps you can take to remedy this behavior in your marriage.</p>
<p>Michael owns a private practice in Charlotte, NC where he not only works with individuals and couples for relationship and marriage counseling, he is a well known figure in the corporate and career counseling world as well. You can give Michael a call at 704.858.2984 to find out more.</p>
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		<itunes:duration>34:05</itunes:duration>
		<itunes:subtitle>The signs of physical abuse are often easy to recognize, but do you know the indicators of emotional abuse in a relationship? Where do we ...</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>The signs of physical abuse are often easy to recognize, but do you know the indicators of emotional abuse in a relationship? Where do we draw the line between a benign sarcastic exchange every now and then and behavior that is truly hurtful to one or both spouses? Dr. Michael Hall joins us to examine exactly what emotional abuse is, the impact it has on both spouses, and steps you can take to remedy this behavior in your marriage.

Michael owns a private practice in Charlotte, NC where he not only works with individuals and couples for relationship and marriage counseling, he is a well known figure in the corporate and career counseling world as well. You can give Michael a call at 704.858.2984 to find out more.</itunes:summary>
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		<title>Do You Treat Your Spouse Like A Child?</title>
		<link>http://stayhappilymarried.com/2009/08/10/do-you-treat-your-spouse-like-a-child/</link>
		<comments>http://stayhappilymarried.com/2009/08/10/do-you-treat-your-spouse-like-a-child/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 10 Aug 2009 14:46:53 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ned</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://stayhappilymarried.com/?p=415</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Where is the line between a normal concern for your spouse&#8217;s well-being, and micr0-managing his or her every decision? Are problems with respect and control solely the fault of the &#8220;parent&#8221; in the relationship, or do both spouses play a part in creating this kind of dynamic? Dr. Katrina Kuzyszyn-Jones joins us to look at [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p>Where is the line between a normal concern for your spouse&#8217;s well-being, and micr0-managing his or her every decision? Are problems with respect and control solely the fault of the &#8220;parent&#8221; in the relationship, or do both spouses play a part in creating this kind of dynamic? Dr. Katrina Kuzyszyn-Jones joins us to look at the control issues and maturity issues that can lead to this problem and discuss what both spouses can do today to start fixing this unhealthy pattern.</p>
<p>Katrina holds a Masters degree in Forensic Psychology, a Doctorate in Clinical Psychology, and has been practicing for over 10 years. Katrina practices with Lepage Associates in Durham, NC and can be reached at 919.572.0000, or by visiting <a href="http://lepageassociates.com">LepageAssociates.com</a></p>
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		<itunes:duration>23:57</itunes:duration>
		<itunes:subtitle>Where is the line between a normal concern for your spouse's well-being, and micr0-managing his or her every decision? Are problems with respect and control ...</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>Where is the line between a normal concern for your spouse's well-being, and micr0-managing his or her every decision? Are problems with respect and control solely the fault of the "parent" in the relationship, or do both spouses play a part in creating this kind of dynamic? Dr. Katrina Kuzyszyn-Jones joins us to look at the control issues and maturity issues that can lead to this problem and discuss what both spouses can do today to start fixing this unhealthy pattern.

Katrina holds a Masters degree in Forensic Psychology, a Doctorate in Clinical Psychology, and has been practicing for over 10 years. Katrina practices with Lepage Associates in Durham, NC and can be reached at 919.572.0000, or by visiting LepageAssociates.com</itunes:summary>
		<itunes:keywords>blame, conflict, control, dependency, podcasts</itunes:keywords>
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		<title>Is Your Spouse Always Wrong?</title>
		<link>http://stayhappilymarried.com/2009/07/13/is-your-spouse-always-wrong/</link>
		<comments>http://stayhappilymarried.com/2009/07/13/is-your-spouse-always-wrong/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Jul 2009 15:00:55 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ned</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Why is it so easy to blame the problems in your marriage solely on your spouse, but so difficult  to examine your own contributions to problems in the relationship? Is it possible to improve the situation with your spouse by changing your own behaviors? Counselor and broadcast personality Carolyn Craft joins us to discuss [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p>Why is it so easy to blame the problems in your marriage solely on your spouse, but so difficult  to examine your own contributions to problems in the relationship? Is it possible to improve the situation with your spouse by changing your own behaviors? Counselor and broadcast personality Carolyn Craft joins us to discuss how to improve our marriages by focusing on our own contributions to problems we blame on our spouses.</p>
<p>In addition to her private practice in Durham, NC where she specializes in communication, sexual issues, addiction, and grief/loss, Carolyn is an ordained minister and hosted a popular show on Sirius Satellite radio for 10 years. You can find out more about Carolyn&#8217;s broadcasting career at <a href="http://www.carolyncraft.com">CarolynCraft.com</a> and more about her counseling practice at <a href="http://www.unity.vpweb.com">www.unity.vpweb.com</a></p>
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		<itunes:duration>26:22</itunes:duration>
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		<itunes:summary>Why is it so easy to blame the problems in your marriage solely on your spouse, but so difficult  to examine your own contributions to problems in the relationship? Is it possible to improve the situation with your spouse by changing your own behaviors? Counselor and broadcast personality Carolyn Craft joins us to discuss how to improve our marriages by focusing on our own contributions to problems we blame on our spouses.

In addition to her private practice in Durham, NC where she specializes in communication, sexual issues, addiction, and grief/loss, Carolyn is an ordained minister and hosted a popular show on Sirius Satellite radio for 10 years. You can find out more about Carolyn's broadcasting career at CarolynCraft.com and more about her counseling practice at www.unity.vpweb.com</itunes:summary>
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		<itunes:author>Stay Happily Married</itunes:author>
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